Sunday, July 7, 2013

Tag-along Mom and ROW 80


Hello Everyone!

First, a big thanks to all of those who have stopped by to read and leave comments.  I sometimes wonder why I blog, since it can oftentimes appear to be a futile effort, so I truly do appreciate your time and feedback. It really does make it worthwhile.

In life and other matters, my twelve year old daughter had a sleep-over this week.  Typical twelve-year old stuff:  Nail polish, hanging out at the park, bad movie, ghost-stories, home-made Ouija board, etc.  My daughter and her friend asked to walk down the trail by our house to ransack a Mulberry tree and I agreed.  It really wasn’t that far, and they are twelve and together.  And, my daughter assured me, her friend had her phone.
 

As I watched their pony-tails swinging down the block and disappear around the corner, I sighed the parental sigh of Mommies everywhere:  My pre-teen is growing up so fast; well on the path to leaving me, as all children are since Day One.  I was having all these type of thoughts when the phone rang.  I picked it up and heard, “I’ve got’cha where I want’cha.  Now I’m gonna eat’cha.”

It was my daughter and her friend, discussing the lame ghost story I had told them at dinner that night.  I quickly realized the phone had speed-dialed our house on accident, and now I was somehow a voyeur, secret passenger on their walk down the path.  I listened as they giggled, screamed, gushed and talkedsofast I could hardly understand a word, but the poignancy of the moment caught me:  Here I was, suspended in my daughter’s world.  One apart from me, but one I helped create.

I wouldn’t tell her, but I will tell you.  I put the phone on speaker and listened for a few moments as I did the dishes.  They were so fresh and full of life.  I didn’t feel like I was invading her privacy, just admiring their world from my place.  The writer in me thought, “If this was a book, something terrible would happen to one of the girls, and then the phone would go dead!” Yuck.  Not a book I’d want to read, so I pushed the thought away and reveled in the beauty of my daughter’s world for the moment.

That is—until my four year old came in the door and said, “Geez Mom!  Are you still wistening to dat?” 

I sighed again, the sigh of parents everywhere, and hung up the phone.  On to the next moment.

 


As for ROW 80,

Private Just Jill reporting for duty!  Article done for submission to “Chicken Soup for the Mother’s Soul” (I know…) and I am entering a contest to help get the lead out as far as re-editing my MS “Dreamwalker”. 

Over and Out!

 


Lastly, I wanted to tell you all about a must-read blog.  Most of you are probably familiar with lovely  Rosi over at "The Write Stuff", but if you are not, this blog should really be a regular on your blog-list.  Packed full of fabulous links for writers and great reviews and give-aways, Rosi never disappoints.  It's like your usual dish you always order from your favorite restaurant!  (And her blog template is simply FABULOUS!)
TTFN,
~Just Jill

 

 

22 comments:

  1. Liked reading this, Jill. My daughter is 10... the days are going so fast!
    Wendy

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    1. Yes they are Wendy. Thanks so much for coming 'round. Always nice to hear from you.
      ~Just Jill

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  2. I loved this! Not too sweet, not too savory. Indeed, your little voyeuristic journey into your daughters world was just right! Thank you for sharing.

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    1. Hey, thanks for stopping by Barbara. Quite neighborly of you.
      ~~Just Jill

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  3. Did your daughter hear your four year old or did she never discover that you were listening?

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    1. I did tell the girls about hearing the "I gotcha where I wantcha..." which they thought was really funny. But I didn't want to creep them out about my Mommy-moment.
      ~JJ

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  4. Enjoy the moments. My sons and their friends always hang out with us a little bit when they visit. I love their friends even now when they're all in their twenties.

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    1. I love to hear that! I never hung out with my parents but I hope my kids will...
      ~JJ

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  5. My son's friend accidentally butt-called the house one day from school and I listened in a minute too, just to be a fly on the wall for a moment. They really do grow up fast. Mine is getting ready to get his driver's license this month. Then I'll have to watch him drive away without me in the car. Mother of all sighs.

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    1. Snort. Never heard the phrase "butt-call" before, but is now in my pocket dictionary. (Right next to my phone.)
      ~JJ

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  6. I know a chef who once said that the sweetness of strawberries was beautifully highlighted by the addition of a little pepper. The mulberry pickers (I'd love to know how many they actually brought home!) is a good illustration of that.
    Hurrah on the editing for 'Dreamwalker'!
    (I think I'm following The Write Stuff, but if not I am now...)

    Diana at About Myself By Myself

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    1. They didn't even bother to bring along a pail. They just grazed.
      ~Just Jill

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  7. What a bittersweet moment. And nah, that wasn't eavesdropping... all you did was answer the phone, right? And hang it up reeeeeeeeeeally slowly.

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  8. This is so cute and an irresistible moment for a writer/mom. Yup, it sounds like something Chicken Soup would love to publish. Let us know if they do. Thanks for the shout out. I'm glad you enjoy my blog.

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  9. You know... I hadn't considered this story for Chicken Soup. I am actually working on something else, but now that you mention it...
    ~Just Jill

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  10. WOW. What a scene! There is some serious writer fodder there--overhearing pre-teens without them even knowing it. Congratulations on the article!

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  11. Ah, I love those accidental calls! All I usually hear is giggling and a bit of shrieking, probably where someone has grabbed her phone or is tickling her. Once in a while I hear "OMG you're ringing my mum!" before it goes dead. As my daughter is now 17, Jill, you still have quite a few of those moments to come, most likely! :-)

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    1. I hope so Linda. Thanks for popping 'round.
      ~Just Jill

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  12. I love the thought of "admiring from afar." Alas, we writers get some goulish thoughts, don't we?

    Best of luck in the endeavors, and may I repeat I really, really want to read your book.

    Finally, have joined Rosi's site. Bet it's awesome.

    PS - Sorry for the prolonged hiatus! We are just back from Ireland - awesome!

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  13. Alison Dahling! SO good to hear from you. Welcome "home".
    ~Just Jill

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